Sunday, September 30, 2012

Guest blog from my great friend Philip...and Newbie 5Ker


 
My good friend/work colleague and I had lunch a few weeks ago.  We were discussing happiness.  I always enjoy our conversations since Philip has a unique POV.  He was born in Nigeria and has a  "Midwestern" accent.  That is how he describes it...very funny!

According to Philip

Happiness is "Happen-ness".  Things happen, we are happy, things happen/don't happen we are unhappy. In other words, we react to things 'happening" to us.

Being Joyous is a state of remaining positive, whether things happen or not - because we know it all works for good and because we know "Happen-ness" is temporary.

 
Relevant quotes provided by Philip:

·        Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day. — Henri Nouwen

·        The happiest people don't worry too much about whether life is fair or not, they just get on with it. - Andrew Matthews
 
 

By the way, Philip describes himself as joyous.  And if you knew Philip I'm sure you would agree, as his wife, daughter and many friends must agree.

Philip enjoying a boat cruise with his family



Slightly off topic but, one of Charles favorite quotes (he said he saw this on the side of a CTA bus). 

"If you're not living on the edge, you're taking up too much space."

Love this quote and Jan and I often joke about it. :)


Your friend Newbie

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